it has been a while since my last blog, my son, r had an accident & took out 5 mailboxes & a DOT sign. he wasn't hurt in the accident, thank God, b/c the 4X4 posts that the sign & mailboxes were on could have taken off his head. he & the trooper felt that the accident was caused by a mechanical defect.... but when he went back the next day to replace the mailboxes, he hurt his arm to the extent that he had to have 17 stitches in his arm. thank God again that he is still ok. my nephew got a dwi at 16 years of age. thank God also that he is okay. & thank God also that he didn't hurt or kill anyone else. i love him. just as i love my sons. but he should have known better. his dad, my brother, is an alcoholic...... i don't know what i would do w/o either of them..... thank God also that j seems to still be on the right path w/ no interuptions..... hopefully, r's accident has taught him something & my nephew's accident has taught him something...... i pray for all of them each night when i go to sleep, just as i pray for my brothers each night when i go to sleep...... nephew, i love u, but u need to understand that u need to be helping me right now w/ my brother who has cancer, so that we can make sure he is ok........i love u, but i need u'r help......even though u are only 16........ love, g | 
